Thinking of those for whom this day is difficult for ANY reason.
Ours had due dates but never birthdays.
We never met any of them. The first one was the only one we shortlisted names for - we didn't let ourselves hope for the others - I think the loss of such a joyful hope and expectation is one of the hardest parts…
“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, it’s learning to dance in the rain”.
WAIT! Before you share this/dismiss this as a cheesy platitude blog post…
Thing is…that’s all very well, and we all have VERY different ‘storms’.
I’ve been ‘dancing’ through my storms for nearly twenty years…
Do you want to know a relationship saving sentence - workplace relevant; romantic relationship relevant; friends and family relevant?
It is this:
"The story that I'm telling myself is..."
And you can say it to yourself AND/OR others to clear up troubling situations.
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