Do you want to know a relationship saving sentence - workplace relevant; romantic relationship relevant; friends and family relevant?
It is this:
"The story that I'm telling myself is..."
And you can say it to yourself AND/OR others to clear up troubling situations.
Read MoreDistinctions are EVERYTHING.
”Let it BE, rather than let it go” came to me yesterday and I immediately thought "YES. That's it, a perfect distinction".
And why shouldn’t we just ‘let it go’?
Read MoreThe last five months have been very hard, and the last few weeks before I set off, particularly so. I’m sharing to increase congruence - which is vital in the work that I do.
This is NOT a sympathy request post, or attention seeking, or an invitation to ask for further details. If you want to offer me commiseration, I appreciate you, and that is not what this is about, thank you.
Read MoreIt was a common theme throughout my life from various figures – mistaking a naturally exuberant personality with self-confidence, or (worse) ‘loving yourself’ & then, usually, trying to crush it in some way, teach me a lesson or ‘bring me down a peg or two’...
Read MoreHow to recognise your own unhelpful language patterns and use language more powerfully.
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